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WE FORGET THIS SITE ISNT JUST ABOUT FUCKING ...

By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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Sometimes it's nice to just chat and interact with people on this site as well as want to fuck them !! So who would you like to chat with from what you can ascertain from they're profile ??

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*ucker By *ucker   premium paying member 35 public photos on profile (F 34 weeks ago

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and can we fuck em after the chat then?

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By *eepjayne   premium paying member (F 34 weeks ago

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Think you'll find that in the small-print!!

Jayne xxx

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By *adboy825   1 public photos on profile (M) 34 weeks ago

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id like to chat to anybody that wants to chat to me ,so if there is anybody that fancys talking drop me a line or two

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By *weetangentle  (M) 34 weeks ago

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i have to agree with toby21 ive sent a few messages out to women (not many) who straight away say im not interested lol who asume im just after one thing makes me laugh i just love the chat as well as the bunter. on here who happends to be a nice guy x hmmm nature of the site sopose

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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well i love to chat to people on here, always feel free to drop me a line! x

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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I guess most ladies may assume that because you've messaged you only want to shag them , Which is probably true in most cases but there are a few of us who are still happy to chat knowing that there will be no sex !!

Perfect Pins ..I love chatting to you , Thankyou !! x

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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hiya toby,

yes we love our little chats, but bonking is'nt out of the question! lol x

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By *apital claw   profile verified by photo 1 public photos on profile (M) 34 weeks ago

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yeah I'm quite happy to start a good old natter sometimes.

Bit frustrating when any conversation starters basically get deleted straight off the bat

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*moothienw By *moothienw   premium paying member 41 public photos on profile (F 34 weeks ago

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i love this place for the chat and banter - i have met some peeps at social events and one couple with Carl - i would say i use this site more for chat than meets - im happy with Carl and the way we are - made some good friends here that im looking forward to seeing again soon

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*iqureman By *iqureman   5 public photos on profile (M) 34 weeks ago

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i agree with toby21. I come on here to chat and most of the women think you just want sex. Cant women see that when us men have day's off its nice to chat to different people than just sat at home looking at the 4 walls.

some of us men are like most women and just want to gossip

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*heshirecpl By  *heshirecpl    profile verified by photo premium paying member 29 public photos on profile (M)(F 34 weeks ago

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Sorry, but we have never had a mail from a stranger without their being an agenda in it, and lets face it, we wouldn't expect anythin else.

We are on a sex site where men women and females are looking for sex, so we expect them :-)

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*heshirecpl By  *heshirecpl    profile verified by photo premium paying member 29 public photos on profile (M)(F 34 weeks ago

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there *

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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same here. we have had many messages that seem to start out as a chat, but always end up, three messages down the line, of when we are next out , et'c. thats what we are here for and thats what we expect

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*heshirecpl By  *heshirecpl    profile verified by photo premium paying member 29 public photos on profile (M)(F 34 weeks ago

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Yes, and what we expect to happen on here.

Although we have spoke to some nice people in chat and the forums etc, we use this site for what it is, a sex site, we expect mails about sex and possible meets :-)

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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we like to chat in room or email ect but hoping for sex too lol

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By *aro  (M) 34 weeks ago

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I just come in for a mooch at all you lovely ladies I have no desire to peter any of you. but i dont bite and love a chit chat so I leave it to you if you want to chat but i have to say there is loads that look and dont talk. Hope you all have fun and keep posting your piccies xx

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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I agree, this site isn't just about sex. Yes, I've had a few meets, but I also really enjoy chatting to people, both in the forums and private messages. I've got to know some great people and think I'm a little bit addicted to finding out what's going on with all you strange folk around the country/world!!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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p.s. also enjoy perving over the pics!!!

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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... don't we all ... especially yours !!

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*ideokim By *ideokim   98 public photos on profile (M)(F 34 weeks ago

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We chat more than meet on this site, chatting is good though as we have made some good friends.

Not being a full on site works well for us as we divide meets with another site we use so it works for us.

Kim x

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*ip service By *ip service   premium paying member 12 public photos on profile (F 34 weeks ago

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i use this site just for chats i dont meet and not all chats are about sex ive made some gr8 friends

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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No reason why all chat has to be about sex - I regulary chat to a few people (including a couple of male members) - I'm unlikely to ever meet them and certainly not for sex if I do.

On the other hand, I talk to others for the sole purpose of meeting for sex.

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By *icky789   profile verified by photo 3 public photos on profile (M) 34 weeks ago

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l am in contact with a woman on this site, we chat she gives me advice and jokes. Certainly on some of the abbreviations and slang terms. However she has let me down on what is is a 4 fingered Kit Kat

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*he jailer By *he jailer   profile verified by photo 8 public photos on profile (M) 34 weeks ago

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its a chocolate busicut isnt it??? or it was when i went to school.

Id ask her does she prefer 4 fingers or a chunky????

herd you can get em in different flavours now too.

A 4 finger in all honestly sounds like a thumb away, from a fist. but then im very filthy so i would read it that way.

Im back after a year off from this site so if any of you fancy plucking the courage up for a giggle and natter then come and penertrate my inbox :)

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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I'd go for the 4 four fingers thing too, but seeing as it's chocolate covered, well need i say more.....

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By *icky789   profile verified by photo 3 public photos on profile (M) 34 weeks ago

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Ok l have my answer l cant see many women liking kit kats l have used the other digit on there request? Guess im a Kit Kat Virgin

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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I love them micky! but then I would eh?

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By *icky789   profile verified by photo 3 public photos on profile (M) 34 weeks ago

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Being a kit kat novice would you give me one for the experience

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*eachybumbum By *eachybumbum   profile verified by photo 1 public photos on profile (F 34 weeks ago

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Yeah its good to talk ....... I like a 'normal' chat as well as naughty. But hard to have a decent convo when you get messaages like this one I just got ............

sat on msn with cock in hand - fancy joining me and play along........ not even a 'hi' lol ....... guys like that are the ones that make us think you are all only after 'sex' in whatever form.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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Those are the ones I ignore peachy. You have to laugh though, they are trying, bless em!!

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By *b18   profile verified by photo (M) 34 weeks ago

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I like chatting on here! I have also got into posting in the forums aswell and getting to now a few people know, If people want to go further then thats good, it depends on how well we get on.

PerfectPins, would love to chat to you!! and Nice Pics too!! ;)

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

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I absolutely love the social aspect of this site (and I guess the 'scene' in general? Although that's an assumption as I'm inexperienced). It's good fun being able to read other peoples' opinions/experiences, to be able to banter, and join in with the more surreal, fun forum posts (like the two word one).

It's also great to be able to talk about sexual matters in an uninhibited way of course. I've not been here long but I love this site!

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*ucker By *ucker   premium paying member 35 public photos on profile (F 34 weeks ago

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i joined this site hoping for good horny sex ,thats what i get ,the chat and friends i have made are a bonus

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*otown By  *otown    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 34 weeks ago

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_ucker tut tut pmsl yer tart xx

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*heshirecpl By  *heshirecpl    profile verified by photo premium paying member 29 public photos on profile (M)(F 34 weeks ago

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Ah _ucker, thanks for restoring my faith in what the site is about......sex first !!!

:-)

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By  *oki    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 34 weeks ago

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_ucker is right , just the way it has happened is the oyher way around for me lol

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By *eepjayne   premium paying member (F 34 weeks ago

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And for most of us babe, I hope, I'd never fuck anyone I hadn't chatted to loads (inc the hastily arranged - we chatted for the 12 hrs he was on a train!!)

If you don't make me laugh, you don't get my knickers off!!!

Jayne xxx

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*heshirecpl By  *heshirecpl    profile verified by photo premium paying member 29 public photos on profile (M)(F 33 weeks ago

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A dating site it isn't. I think everyone joins to find NSA sex.

As it is a dogging site too, do you have to have deap and meaningfuls with strangers in a car park too?

For us, we don't need hearts and flowers, and hours of endless ping pong mails. If we want to play after one chat on MSN we do.

We do feel safer doing this as a couple and I am sure if I was a single female playing I would be way more cautious, but what I can't understand sometimes is the amount of people saying they can't answer every mail that comes in because they get so many.....and then say they need lots and lots of chat before having a meet.

How does the time suddenly appear then.

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By  *oki    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 33 weeks ago

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Jayne if I was wearing your knickers I am not sure I would want to get them off lol

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By *eepjayne   premium paying member (F 33 weeks ago

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But Chesh, safety must be paramount, and what better way than to get to know each other? And that way a much more fun meet too, cos I for 1 would never arrange a meet with someone who didn't have a sense of humour!!!

If it all goes tits up, at least you can laugh!!!

Jayne xxxx

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*heshirecpl By  *heshirecpl    profile verified by photo premium paying member 29 public photos on profile (M)(F 33 weeks ago

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We are all different jayne.

We don't need a war and peace first mail/ endless ping pong ones and chats every day for three weeks to have a gut feeling about someone. If we like them we meet, and you can normally tell pretty fast if you think you might get on in real life too.

We don't meet people who grunt rather than speak ( although grunting is a good thing when you meet for fun ;-) )so it isn't as if we just randomly pick men to play with just because they are on this site. We choose to meet them because it looks like we may get on enough to play and interact inbetween play.

We are using the site as we intended to, a NSA sex site were we don't want to know the ins and outs of a cats arse before we decide to meet someone.

We go with a gut instinct, as most would do I am sure.

Safety is always an issue, I mentioned that on my last post, but all I can say is the poor men must be so confused of what some women are actually on this site for. ( and I am not saying anyone in particular because there has been lots who have come and gone)

They are joining for NSA sex and although obviously they might not get it after a first chat but if it is going to take weeks and weeks of chat while having to woo the woman/couple with hearts and flowers/ then expected to turn up with presents if you get to the stage of meeting for coffee, then they must think they are on a dating site not a NSA sex site.

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*nneuk By *nneuk   profile verified by photo 8 public photos on profile (F 33 weeks ago

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I'm quite cool with chat - like has been said, not everyone is here for sex, or at least, not sex straight away. I tend to respond to the guys who send either longish (and i mean long as opposed to "Hi"!), intelligent emails, even more so ones that have read some of what i've written on the forums or something, cos it shows an interest in *me*. that's not sweet talking me, cos i'm not interested in dating - but at the same time, i'm human enough to want to be thought of as more than just a convenient hole to park a cock (or two) in.. :)

i just go with the flow - everyone is different. Away from here, i've had some fantastic conversations with people, met some really really nice men, and even without the sex, had a great time. One memorable afternoon i spent driving around with a guy, trying to find somewhere private to be - we never did find anywhere, but that didn't matter - we had a great time chatting and laughing and i really hope that at some point we'll meet up again.. :)

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