@private mail,
+add as contact I'm quite cool with chat - like has been said, not everyone is here for sex, or at least, not sex straight away. I tend to respond to the guys who send either longish (and i mean long as opposed to "Hi"!), intelligent emails, even more so ones that have read some of what i've written on the forums or something, cos it shows an interest in *me*. that's not sweet talking me, cos i'm not interested in dating - but at the same time, i'm human enough to want to be thought of as more than just a convenient hole to park a cock (or two) in.. :)
i just go with the flow - everyone is different. Away from here, i've had some fantastic conversations with people, met some really really nice men, and even without the sex, had a great time. One memorable afternoon i spent driving around with a guy, trying to find somewhere private to be - we never did find anywhere, but that didn't matter - we had a great time chatting and laughing and i really hope that at some point we'll meet up again.. :) |