"Thank you both.
I tend not to keep sending messages to the same profile. I have messages in my sent folder not answered after 6 weeks nore are they deleted, and i know some of them are regular site users.
I suppose some users only communicate with friends and ignore other messages.
Just keep trying and you will soon find women or couples replying. I've been on here a couple of years now and I was in the same boat as you originally.
Do you suggest i keep trying, even though my extra messages just agrivate the overflowing in boxes?"