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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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So in our staff canteen is a stunning young lady working there..Brunette, about 5'7" 5'8" , cant be more than early 20s max.

Really want to ask her out...but scared shitless as never asked someone out in this context..if she says no, its no biggie for me as I'll just eat from outside to avoid making her feel uncomfortable....but god I want to ask....

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By *oonshadow   profile verified by photo (F 17 weeks ago

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"So in our staff canteen is a stunning young lady working there..Brunette, about 5'7" 5'8" , cant be more than early 20s max.

Really want to ask her out...but scared shitless as never asked someone out in this context..if she says no, its no biggie for me as I'll just eat from outside to avoid making her feel uncomfortable....but god I want to ask...."

Be happy friendly chatty guy that comes into the canteen every day. Go in when it's not so busy so that she has the time for you. See how it goes.

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*atpurr By *atpurr   profile verified by photo (F 17 weeks ago

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Try and find a bit more about her first. Is she already in a relationship ? Is it likely she would be interested in an older man ?

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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Thanks both...both good suggestions. I might ask if she has a bf(or even a gf) first...will have to be delicate..I was thinking of asking one of her colleagues but scared shitless just incase they look at me all weired lol

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 17 weeks ago

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Get to know her see what she is like you could invite her out for a drink after work

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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"Get to know her see what she is like you could invite her out for a drink after work "

That was my initial plan...as then I would know if she was in a relationship with anyone..I was going to ask some of the otyers in the canteen but worried they'd castigste me or keep giggling everytime they see me...thus drawing unecessary attention to me lol

Getting butterflies just thinking about all this!!

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 17 weeks ago

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Take your time theres no rush if you think asking others may help try but if you think it may make it more awkward or weird then suck it up whats the worst thing that can happen i would just talk with her when you get chance slow and steady be yourself see where it goes

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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"Take your time theres no rush if you think asking others may help try but if you think it may make it more awkward or weird then suck it up whats the worst thing that can happen i would just talk with her when you get chance slow and steady be yourself see where it goes "

Sage advice...duly noted

Thank you

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*ikeit72 By  *ikeit72    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 17 weeks ago

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Was in the same boat recently so I just took my time - chatted and laughed together, got to know each other , gave a few (well earned) compliments, and when we were eventually alone together and the time seemed right taking my courage in my hands I took the leap and invited her out for a drink or coffee after work (to a nice place nearby) and added that she could bring her friend if she felt safer. She accepted, didn't bring her friend, and now I have a new friend (and so does she).

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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as Hannibal would say.....I love it when a plan comes together

good on you

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 17 weeks ago

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"Take your time theres no rush if you think asking others may help try but if you think it may make it more awkward or weird then suck it up whats the worst thing that can happen i would just talk with her when you get chance slow and steady be yourself see where it goes

Sage advice...duly noted

Thank you "

You welcome and we hope it goes well for you

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By *oinercock  (M)(F 17 weeks ago

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"as Hannibal would say.....I love it when a plan comes together

good on you "

Hannibal Lecter????

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By *oonshadow   profile verified by photo (F 17 weeks ago

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liver and chianti it is then

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*orkshire rock By *orkshire rock   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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"liver and chianti it is then"

waiting for the slurping noise.....

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 17 weeks ago

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I heard that noise and i love the feel maybe not made the same way tho lol

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By *oonshadow   profile verified by photo (F 17 weeks ago

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I personally like to use a straw

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By *eizah  (TV/TS/CD) 17 weeks ago

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Fava beans anyone?

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By *eizah  (TV/TS/CD) 17 weeks ago

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Fava beans anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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wtf happened to this thread hahahahaha

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By *oonshadow   profile verified by photo (F 17 weeks ago

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we've solved your problem, now anything goes

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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hahahahahaha

true

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By *adponyboy   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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Oh, just order a hotdog and eat it really slowly, while making direct eye-contact with her and ignoring the ketchup dripping down your chin...winner.

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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"Oh, just order a hotdog and eat it really slowly, while making direct eye-contact with her and ignoring the ketchup dripping down your chin...winner."

Eh?? All that proves is that I’m a messy eater ...

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By *eizah  (TV/TS/CD) 17 weeks ago

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Lol...x

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*ohnnyThunder By *ohnnyThunder   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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Loved reading this. For all the sexy sex that goes on in here, it's good to see some romance blossoming too. Having butterflies is a great feeling. Sadly, all too rare.

My advise woukd be not to rush it. Talk and be fun. It will become clear to you if she feels the same way too.

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*agman By  *agman    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 17 weeks ago

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My advice - for what it's worth - is to go for it direct with the young lady. Don't involve anyone else in the canteen or whatever. If it all goes wrong she won't want everyone else in her workplace to know you've been talking about her.

The number of times (when i was younger, admittedly!) i've been scared to ask - only to find out later that 'they' wished i had, yet did nothing themselves - goes into two hands worth of fingers lol.....

Go for it - before someone else does!

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 17 weeks ago

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Has mr chocolate made any further advances with the topic

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*orkshire rock By *orkshire rock   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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"Has mr chocolate made any further advances with the topic "

I see what you did there...

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By *adolderguy   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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he thinks she s the chocolate girl , (cue for a song ), lol

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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"Has mr chocolate made any further advances with the topic "

Sadly not yet...but not for want of trying ..she's always with a colleague so catching her on her own behind the counter is proving to be difficult....I will of course keep this thread updated (makes a change from Brexit)

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 17 weeks ago

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"Has mr chocolate made any further advances with the topic

I see what you did there..."

Thought we would sneak that one in lol

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By *oonshadow   profile verified by photo (F 17 weeks ago

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Hope you haven't got dried egg on your tie

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By *oinercock  (M)(F 17 weeks ago

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"Hope you haven't got dried egg on your tie"

Is that a euphemism?

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By *oonshadow   profile verified by photo (F 17 weeks ago

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No it's just dried egg yolk, isn't that the worst

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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"No it's just dried egg yolk, isn't that the worst"

Unless it's a Cadbury's Creme egg.

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 17 weeks ago

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Wander over, flutter your eyelids and say hello.

If she doesn't melt into a puddle then move along.

It's never more complicated than that.

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Traveled of Surbiton.

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*ohnnyThunder By *ohnnyThunder   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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If only we all had eyes like yours, Enoch. I don't know about anyone else, but I could swim in them forever. Swoon.

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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago

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"Wander over, flutter your eyelids and say hello.

If she doesn't melt into a puddle then move along.

It's never more complicated than that.

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Traveled of Surbiton."

If she melted into a puddle I'd be on cloud 9 (Jamiroquai anyone?) ...Hoping to see if I can introduce myself today...

more nervous than a field mouse in a David Attenborough doccumentary about barn owls

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*ohnnyThunder By *ohnnyThunder   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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In my experience, I've only had butterflies with girls who have also had them about me... So by that rational, sh might have them about you too... Good luck, son... Let us know how you get on.

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 17 weeks ago

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"I don't know about anyone else, but I could swim in them forever."

Well they have been likened to piss holes in the snow.

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*ohnnyThunder By *ohnnyThunder   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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Yes, but beautiful piss holes.

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 17 weeks ago

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Isn't love wonderful.

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*ohnnyThunder By *ohnnyThunder   profile verified by photo (M) 17 weeks ago

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There you go again, confusing love with lust.

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By *oonshadow   profile verified by photo (F 17 weeks ago

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Do I do

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*ikeit72 By  *ikeit72    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 17 weeks ago

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"Do I do"

do be do be dooo

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago

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so after delicately broaching the subject, sadly she politely declined.

Oh well ...que cera cera

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 16 weeks ago

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At least you gave it a go better have tried and know then to sit thinking about it and not

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*ohnnyThunder By *ohnnyThunder   profile verified by photo (M) 16 weeks ago

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Exactly, the Shy's.

It is not over yet though. Now that she knows you like her, it'll be interesting to see how things develop over time. Just keep being normal with her, and be polite and funny. She might look at you a bit differently from now on?

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 16 weeks ago

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Yep 12 months of Mrs shy been locked in the cellar worked out fine for me lol

As said above she may see you in a different way now just see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago

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Thanks all...appreciated.

Still got the hots for her despite her not being interested. I dont wont to push my luck after she declined....but will just be normal around her (if thats possible!!)

Ps re the cellar...hahahahaha!!!

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 16 weeks ago

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Only bad bit i dare not let her out lol

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago

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"Only bad bit i dare not let her out lol "

Hahahaha too funny.

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 16 weeks ago

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Let her out this morning to get her hair done shes been in the salon nearly 5 hours hope she still has hair when she gets home lol

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 16 weeks ago

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"so after delicately broaching the subject, sadly she politely declined."

Sounds like a lucky escape!

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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago

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"so after delicately broaching the subject, sadly she politely declined.

Sounds like a lucky escape!"

For her? ....yeah probably

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