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By *eastoke  (M) 36 weeks ago

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Question.....what does it mean to you.....

Some folk think that stuff I find is a daily thing kinky....others not so.

So we all have different ideas of what KINKY means to you.......what’s your definition?

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By  *r and Mrs shy    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)(F 36 weeks ago

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Kinky would be somthing you like but makes you nervous and excited maybe somthing you do a place you do it etc it could be a rather large list lol

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By *romethious   profile verified by photo (M) 36 weeks ago

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I’d like to see how big your lists are _r and mrs shy

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By  *r and Mrs shy    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)(F 36 weeks ago

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Hope you got enough paper to match the yellow pages lol

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By *eastoke  (M) 36 weeks ago

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"Kinky would be somthing you like but makes you nervous and excited maybe somthing you do a place you do it etc it could be a rather large list lol"

I don’t consider that kinky, it’s daring etc, but normal sex of types in places like that is just daring, exciting, but not kinky...however I do appreciate your definition, the first insight into other folks thoughts.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago

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It used to be said "Kinky was using a feather......... perverted. was using the whole Chicken!!"

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By *eastoke  (M) 36 weeks ago

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"It used to be said "Kinky was using a feather......... perverted. was using the whole Chicken!!"

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Stunner lol

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By *oonshadow   profile verified by photo (F 36 weeks ago

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A sexy move, a little more extreme to the usual which makes it more unexpected.

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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago

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Kinky is anything with a twist!!

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By *ipsforlips   profile verified by photo (M) 36 weeks ago

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I have a problem with terms like "Kinky". I know what I (we) like, and I also know what's new or different; but after it's tried and enjoyed, to me it just becomes part of stuff I (or we) like.

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By *ipsforlips   profile verified by photo (M) 36 weeks ago

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"Kinky would be somthing you like but makes you nervous and excited. Maybe somthing you do, a place you do it, etc. It could be a rather large list lol"

This is one of the best definitions I've seen, as it allows everyone to have their own start point.

But what happens when what you're doing no longer makes you nervous, is it still 'kinky'?

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By *eastoke  (M) 36 weeks ago

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"Kinky would be somthing you like but makes you nervous and excited. Maybe somthing you do, a place you do it, etc. It could be a rather large list lol

This is one of the best definitions I've seen, as it allows everyone to have their own start point.

But what happens when what you're doing no longer makes you nervous, is it still 'kinky'? "

So, by these definitions, absolutely anything sexy is kinky until you done it and continue to at which point it stops being kinky but the usual run of the mill things you then have in your sex life?

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By *ipsforlips   profile verified by photo (M) 36 weeks ago

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So, by these definitions, absolutely anything sexy is kinky until you done it and continue to at which point it stops being kinky but the usual run of the mill things you then have in your sex life?"

That's about it, my problem with terms like "kinky", fail to have meaning to me.

Similarly “usual run of the mill things" don't make much sense either.

And then if you mix in different partners, what one likes, another doesn't; what may be 'norm' for one could be completely different for another.

To me it becomes like the old saying about art - "I know what I like. I don't know if it's good, or its bad, but I know what I like."

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By *haredtimes   profile verified by photo (M) 36 weeks ago

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in my opinion I would agree with the definition already given, however I would say if the idea of it makes the majority of people nervous or sounds exciting to them, then the act remains a kink regardless of whether the participants now regard it as a norm

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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago

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Some of the kinky things to me.

Licking feet, sucking toes etc

Watersports ie pissing on each other and or drinking it for sexual pleasure.

Spanking ( I like to be spanked )

Some extreme role play like dressing up as a baby in nappies etc.

Cock and ball torture.

Must be so many others you can add !!

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*irginkiller1962 By *irginkiller1962  (M)(F 36 weeks ago

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What about taboo sex,is that kinky!?

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*RATHER By *RATHER   premium paying member (M) 36 weeks ago

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could be kinky, how taboo?

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*andiAndi By *andiAndi   profile verified by photo (M) 36 weeks ago

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What 1 person may think of being Kinky,

Could be the Norm for someone else.

There is No finite answer to what is Kinky.

If its something you like & enjoy doing.

Just say fuck it & have fun.

That is of course as long as no one gets hurt.

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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago

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Let's not say if no one gets hurt, sometimes that can be a bit fun, but as long as it's consensual...

Oh, and kinky is a definition by society, what society sees as kinky, that's anyone's guess, but it's constantly evolving idea. 50 years ago showing a bit of ankle was kinky. Nowadays, tits in the paper, girls wearing mini skirts (all for it btw ;]) you have to be more my end of the scale to be considered kinky :P

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By *eizah  (TV/TS/CD) 35 weeks ago

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I am!

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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago

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I am about to dig the middle out of a water melon and fuck it , is that kinky or just a typical dirty old boy ?

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*orkshire rock By *orkshire rock   profile verified by photo (M) 35 weeks ago

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"I am about to dig the middle out of a water melon and fuck it , is that kinky or just a typical dirty old boy ?"

Depends if you warm it up a bit first otherwise it will feel like fucking a dead body.....

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By *eorge Smiley   profile verified by photo (M) 35 weeks ago

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I think it's simply mildly unpleasant to think about, unless you are serving the remains to dinner guests later. In which case it's majorly unpleasant but funny. :-0

By the way, ate the risk of confusing threads is such fruity sex ok bareback?

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*orkshire rock By *orkshire rock   profile verified by photo (M) 35 weeks ago

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"I think it's simply mildly unpleasant to think about, unless you are serving the remains to dinner guests later. In which case it's majorly unpleasant but funny. :-0

By the way, ate the risk of confusing threads is such fruity sex ok bareback? "

Depends if it's a virgin melon or you are using it for sloppy seconds....

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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago

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it's full of spunk and in the green wheelie bin now, it was a virgin and a right fucking slag, It loved it as did i.

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By *ockyscot   profile verified by photo (M) 34 weeks ago

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virgin killer! yes it is

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*amslam1000 By *amslam1000  (M) 2 weeks ago

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using a feather is normal.

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the whole chicken is kinky

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*agman By  *agman    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 2 weeks ago

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Oxford Dictionary definition of kinky:

kinky

/'k??ki/Submit adjective

1.

INFORMAL

involving or given to unusual sexual behaviour.

synonyms: abnormal, unusual, weird, bizarre, peculiar, strange, odd, funny;

Whilst the urban disctionary says:

Sexual practices that many people view as wild, unusual, or extreme. Definitions of this word vary from person to person; someone might think wearing a red bra is kinky, or having sex with the lights on, but someone else will classify kinky as being suspended from the ceiling, whipped, and gagged.

Guys are often surprised to discover that quiet girls are the kinkiest.

But they're only quiet because they're imagining having lots of kinky sex.

As in:-

"I went out with this librarian the other night, and I thought she'd be a prude, but at the end of the night she let me tie her up and spank her. She was nice and kinky".

#bdsm#bondage#sex#fetish#spanking#kink

Mrs Shy........are you the quiet type?

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*ikeit72 By  *ikeit72    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 2 weeks ago

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I had a bit of wire rope that went kinky

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 2 weeks ago

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I'm knot 'avin' that!

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*ony5534 By *ony5534  (M) 2 weeks ago

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"I'm knot 'avin' that!"

knots can be a pain in the arse

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By *eizah  (TV/TS/CD) 2 weeks ago

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Anything is only Kinky the first time!

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*hocolateboy1976 By *hocolateboy1976   profile verified by photo (M) 2 weeks ago

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"Anything is only Kinky the first time!"

I’d beg to differ....but I don’t beg

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*iManExeter By *iManExeter  (M) 2 weeks ago

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"Anything is only Kinky the first time!"

Don't talk such rubbish!

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By *969andy6969  (M) 2 weeks ago

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It depends where the rest of the rope is

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By *969andy6969  (M) 2 weeks ago

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Running out of kinky then

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*ikeit72 By  *ikeit72    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 2 weeks ago

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"Running out of kinky then "

nah - just walking!

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By  *adolderguy    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 1 week ago

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wots kinky ? , kinky to me ,might be everyday fun to you n vice versa. its like beauty is in the eye of the beholder , kinkys just what is not normal to your normal sex life , but then some people take it too far and that becomes sexual deviance , but hey i m not being judgemental in any way and if some couples feel the need to send me the pics feel free xx

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*ony5534 By *ony5534  (M) 7 days ago

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Deviance - the fact or state of diverging from usual or accepted standards, especially in social or sexual behaviour. nothing wrong with that.

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By  *adolderguy    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 7 days ago

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, though I draw the line at pain or scat

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 4 days ago

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Ray Davies?

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