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Why oh sodding why?

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Why do people chat apparently in a friendly and interested manner, suggest they want to meet, send a picture purporting to be of them and then ignore you? Then a few days later you see them back on the site, presumably giving the same treatment to other gullible fools. Grrrrrrr....

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By *aniellionsden   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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What is your problem? They are not breaking any rules! If someone wishes to end a conversation to you they are entitled to do so. And they are also entitled to go back on the site any time they want to.

Get over yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"What is your problem? They are not breaking any rules! If someone wishes to end a conversation to you they are entitled to do so. And they are also entitled to go back on the site any time they want to.

Get over yourself! "

My point isn't that it's wrong to break off a conversation. God knows, I stopped talking to myself years ago. Rather my point is that I suspect they deliberate mislead people because they have no intention at all of ever meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Such is life on here...happens time and time again..

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By *aniellionsden   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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"What is your problem? They are not breaking any rules! If someone wishes to end a conversation to you they are entitled to do so. And they are also entitled to go back on the site any time they want to.

Get over yourself!

My point isn't that it's wrong to break off a conversation. God knows, I stopped talking to myself years ago. Rather my point is that I suspect they deliberate mislead

people because they have no intention at all of ever meeting."

That's just your unsupported theory!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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It's the motivation that puzzles me, though I lose no sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Maybe once the photos had been exchanged the person had no interest in taking the conversation any further.

What is the best way of saying 'Hells fire, theres no way you are coming near me looking like that'?

What is the nicest, kindest way of saying you made a mistake at that point?

damned if you do, damned if you dont

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Maybe once the photos had been exchanged the person had no interest in taking the conversation any further.

What is the best way of saying 'Hells fire, theres no way you are coming near me looking like that'?

What is the nicest, kindest way of saying you made a mistake at that point?

damned if you do, damned if you dont

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I guess looking like Quasimodo's ugly brother has its drawbacks...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Such is life on here...happens time and time again.. "

Yes it does I'm afraid. Just don't get disallusioned

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By *ane 69   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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i always ask myself the same question

is the thrill of not meeting me as good as the thrill of actually meeting me?

(ps i hope the answer is no, though i appreciate other answers are available)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Last time that I sent a pic to myself I ran a mile

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By *Enoch   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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My photos can be quite dangerous.

Some women I've sent them to have swooned themselves to an early grave.

Few have ever been able to give other men a second look after.

It's not my fault I'm that handsome.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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The OP has a valid point.

There are a lot of people on here who do this for "Fun" - It is not funny, and I feel for the man having had similar treatment more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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There are wind up merchants on here there and everywhere though... and by letting them know they've wound you up only enhances their ego... so I don't let the bed bugs bite and move on

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*ISS_S By  *ISS_S    profile verified by photo premium paying member (F  over a year ago

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"Last time that I sent a pic to myself I ran a mile "

Lol GG

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*ISS_S By  *ISS_S    profile verified by photo premium paying member (F  over a year ago

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"There are wind up merchants on here there and everywhere though... and by letting them know they've wound you up only enhances their ego... so I don't let the bed bugs bite and move on "

Here here!!!

Woman (esp the fake ones) are the worst closely followed by the males who ............. Erm best not say

Anyway you get the picture

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"There are wind up merchants on here there and everywhere though... and by letting them know they've wound you up only enhances their ego... so I don't let the bed bugs bite and move on

Here here!!!

Woman (esp the fake ones) are the worst closely followed by the males who ............. Erm best not say

Anyway you get the picture "

Have to agree ...ignore them and continue on to the next that's life on here

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"There are wind up merchants on here there and everywhere though... and by letting them know they've wound you up only enhances their ego... so I don't let the bed bugs bite and move on

Here here!!!

Woman (esp the fake ones) are the worst closely followed by the males who ............. Erm best not say

Anyway you get the picture

Have to agree ...ignore them and continue on to the next that's life on here "

NEXT!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Knew i should of joined the queue..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"It's the motivation that puzzles me, though I lose no sleep over it."

Perhaps at the point they break off, they just realised your are not for them and they may have been kidding themselves you were

If you are not loosing sleep over it, all's well and good, but why post about it if it does not bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Never mind what's done is done .....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Never mind what's done is done ....."

C'est la vie

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*ISS_S By  *ISS_S    profile verified by photo premium paying member (F  over a year ago

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"Knew i should of joined the queue.. "

there isn't one

kicked them all off it lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Knew i should of joined the queue..

there isn't one

kicked them all off it lol "

Yes, does that mean am now at the front..

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"Knew i should of joined the queue..

there isn't one

kicked them all off it lol

Yes, does that mean am now at the front.. "

is there anyone in front of you? if not then yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Knew i should of joined the queue..

there isn't one

kicked them all off it lol

Yes, does that mean am now at the front..

is there anyone in front of you? if not then yes "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Possibly to find out if anyone shares the same opinion?

Its an open forum so why shouldnt he post about it?

Its better than the usual crap, ie, whos got the biggest tits, whos got the best arse, who needs more mint sauce than anyone else, ect ect ect.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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And so far this morning (16/10) its been no exception to the usual of being invited, then all of a sudden the messages stop, and we are back to square one - once again looking.

yeah, the original post is a good question, "why o why"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Possibly to find out if anyone shares the same opinion?

Its an open forum so why shouldnt he post about it?

Its better than the usual crap, ie, whos got the biggest tits, whos got the best arse, who needs more mint sauce than anyone else, ect ect ect.

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I need more mint sauce

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Why do people chat apparently in a friendly and interested manner, suggest they want to meet, send a picture purporting to be of them and then ignore you? Then a few days later you see them back on the site, presumably giving the same treatment to other gullible fools. Grrrrrrr...."

I've thought about this long and hard and come to the conclusion that they are fake ... and have no intentions in meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Everyone needs to get a life. This is not the real world

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Everyone needs to get a life. This is not the real world "

Just burst me bubble..Thanks.

To be honest, i always want to meet with like minded females an couples..The fantasy of meeting up an having fantastic sex.. Is just that a fantasy.

I found its never the same as you think it maybe.

I have met some lovely people over the years and had a great time but its never the same as you think it maybe..

This site and many like them is more aimed towards the social aspect of the lifestyle, am not saying your not going to meet lovely sexy people here but if thats all your looking for i think you might be a little dissapointed..Enjoy the chat, you never no you might get that naughty meet you desire.

And to finally finish, i've had more meets on F/book..Haha. Happy hunting. Yeh mad lot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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it will be sum guy pretending to be a women lots and lots on here with fake profile most pics are off internet why they do it ? is beyond me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"it will be sum guy pretending to be a women lots and lots on here with fake profile most pics are off internet why they do it ? is beyond me lol "

Why is the fake profilers any worse or better than the rest of us and our fantasy lives on here. You can be anyone you want. It's all fake.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"it will be sum guy pretending to be a women lots and lots on here with fake profile most pics are off internet why they do it ? is beyond me lol

Why is the fake profilers any worse or better than the rest of us and our fantasy lives on here. You can be anyone you want. It's all fake."

I try to be real not fake no point meeting sum one then been disappointed when your not wot they expected lol I leave the fantasy's in the bedroom

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By *razy2  (M)(F  over a year ago

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We tend to look and see if others have met them and if they have good feed back .But my wife has final say because she's the one who will be enjoying him etc.

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"it will be sum guy pretending to be a women lots and lots on here with fake profile most pics are off internet why they do it ? is beyond me lol

Why is the fake profilers any worse or better than the rest of us and our fantasy lives on here. You can be anyone you want. It's all fake."

Even you.......are you fake?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I have been chatting to a "female" on here recently and "she" has suggested a meet, all good or so I thought. Have asked "her" for clear face pics but all I get is blurry out of focus shots and a pick that I would say has been photoshopped (very very badly). Alarm bells have been ringing for the last week as tonight is meet night and "she" still hasnt asked to see any pics of me,(probably just as well anyway.lol). Dont understand these people????

And yes I know I am not helping myself by not being photo verified or having feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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It's like rain on a barbecue.

Unwelcome, but it happens and best just to prepare for it. If it's too good to be true then it probably is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"It's like rain on a barbecue.

Unwelcome, but it happens and best just to prepare for it. If it's too good to be true then it probably is."

Very true.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Or we could all go mad and try the real world pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Or we could all go mad and try the real world pmsl "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Or we could all go mad and try the real world pmsl "

Good idea. Funny that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Nope

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"it will be sum guy pretending to be a women lots and lots on here with fake profile most pics are off internet why they do it ? is beyond me lol

Why is the fake profilers any worse or better than the rest of us and our fantasy lives on here. You can be anyone you want. It's all fake.

NOPE

Even you.......are you fake?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Why is the fake profilers any worse or better than the rest of us and our fantasy lives on here. You can be anyone you want. It's all fake."

The Fake profile is far worse than others especially when one travels to meet an alleged 26 year old woman to find it is some prat bloke in drag, and an ugly one at that.

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By *eastoke  (M)  over a year ago

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Although it can be annoying, especially if you've travelled, but it's the way they get there sexual kicks, the thrill of chasing the meeting and what will happen that will never happen.

Folk have their own ways and takes on life, this is one, irritating as it can be.....but each to their own....

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