It's not a sex site?
Most of the guys on here are married or attached.
They're not on here to find mates, just a fuck.
So blaming or criticising them for trying is a bit over the top.
If you want a meaningful relationship, try a dating site.
This is a fuck site, either doing or watching.
If you don't do that, then say so. If you do do that, but only with 5ft guys with red hair and big dicks, then say so.
Guys: If they say they only want meets with 5ft guys with red hair and big dicks, and you ain't that, leave them alone.
Is that clear?
Too much beating around the bush on this site (which brings us back to sex)"