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Seriously what is the problem ?

By *lexdog1234   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I don't get why people you message don't take the time to say no sorry thanks when they are not interested !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Because they don't have to... Its not compulsory Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I do

Sorry

(Doh)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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As in "I do see why some people don't"

not "I do reply" obviously!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Arrrrrrr but do you Mr ddc

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By *lexdog1234   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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It's called common courtesy the stuff parents should off raised you with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Look at my heading Spoken to a few... Serial Deleter and becomes rude when blocked.... 95% of folks on here are polite and are happy to tell you if interested in one way or another. Allowing for the fact ladies and couples get inundated with mails MOST will at least hit the No Thanks button..... Take a pat on the back ladies and couples and GUYs... Let's give them a little breathing space now and again... Rant over peace and love to you all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I never use the no thanks button .... never think it works lol unless it does and I've been very rude to just about every one on here .......

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By *lexdog1234   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Correction 95% of people on here arnt who they say they are

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Are you sure 95% so that means 5% of us are real pinching myself now ....yes I think I am....ouch that hurt

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By *lexdog1234   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Thanks for the math jo no I mean u talk to women they are men or women selling your pics you talk to couples they are men it's just hard to sift through the fakes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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That's life Alexdog .... you just have to sift through the dross and get to the best of the best

But until that time ...just keep moving on

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By *lexdog1234   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Cheers jo ??????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Arnt we all virtual in a way on here though ?? I'm a man by the way A confused one maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Very confused and likes smarties and superted

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By *lexdog1234   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Yeh but you are honest and open on here about it there's a huge difference compared to saying your a woman on the profile and it's actually just a geeza spurting over his comp screen talking dirty to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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OMG really are there men on here who do that

I can't believe that for a second

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Super ted is also confused Jo he hangs around with skeletons now to cross the threads Melvyn Hayes (bones) starred in the "young ones with Cliff).... How bizarre

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*iss Tyre By *iss Tyre   profile verified by photo (F  over a year ago

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Even the women have to go through the wood to find the trees.

I have deleted and go slagged of in the forum for it, I have sent polite no thanks and got slagged off to, so no matter what we do we can't win.

A lot of the single men on here seem to be married.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Oops hang on

User no longer online might mean something I get alot of those in my messages ...I must scare alot away with my rolled eyes

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By *lexdog1234   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Yeh I can imagine so , I honestly think there is the minority who are on her to be rude and argue

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Oops i will get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Very confused and likes smarties and superted "

I like Popeye and Mars bars...so what am I??...confused as ever, that's what...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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You are very confused Mr green

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Very confused and likes smarties and superted

I like Popeye and Mars bars...so what am I??...confused as ever, that's what... "

What about spinach

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Prefer Cabbage...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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What a wonderful thing the block button is.....when used in the right way of course.... Oh and Jo.... You can roll yours at me anytime..... Question is though will you get them back xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Mmmm Broccoli

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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The block button .....what's that ...I hardly use it I hope so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Prefer Cabbage... "

Very smelly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Prefer Cabbage...

Very smelly "

But very But very nutritional...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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WTF!!...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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What's the problem Mr green your just telling us why cabbage is nutritional....do tell

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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No problem baby...I just like cabbage, that's not a problem is it??...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Not to my knowledge Mr green

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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You're very matter of fact today Jo, like a school mistress...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Lol am I Mr green ....maybe you should be careful in what you say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Pants on fire...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Lol noooooo your pants are on fire .....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"It's called common courtesy the stuff parents should off raised you with "

Perhaps if you read the old forums on this, you would be able to understand..There was one yesterday,the day before,and.the day before.etc..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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And 365 days of the year ....but there is no harm in someone posting on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Sometimes we are just not in the mood to talk, so unless you're a friend already, the message will go unanswered until we are.

But we do answer.

F.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Yeh I can imagine so , I honestly think there is the minority who are on her to be rude and argue "

Oh No we fu****g dont..

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*atpurr By *atpurr   profile verified by photo (F  over a year ago

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"Thanks for the math jo no I mean u talk to women they are men or women selling your pics you talk to couples they are men it's just hard to sift through the fakes "

Well you seem to have found 2 genuine ones from your feedback. That's a lot more than some people have on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Sometimes we are just not in the mood to talk"

Sometimes??...well that's something, my missus is never in the mood to talk, come to think about it, she's never in the mood to do anything...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Jeez again? Really?

Having to send 70 polite no thank you's every bloody day often to the same person and that will often lead to " why not, give me a chance" follow up messages which in turn leads to abuse must wear a bit thin. Just move on don't worry about it. They obviously aren't interested so why make a big deal of it. I appreciate good manners but everyone has their limit and from what I hear the amount of nessages and associated abuse is overwhelming.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Jeez again? Really?

Having to send 70 polite no thank you's every bloody day often to the same person and that will often lead to " why not, give me a chance" follow up messages which in turn leads to abuse must wear a bit thin. Just move on don't worry about it. They obviously aren't interested so why make a big deal of it. I appreciate good manners but everyone has their limit and from what I hear the amount of nessages and associated abuse is overwhelming."

Sorry Wildt, I had no idea she was back up to 70 a day, I'll have a quiet word and see if I can persuade her to keep it under 50!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Lmao

You asking me to cut down on my messages

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Hasn't worked, sorry, WildT.

Just asked why she'd gone all quiet, she's currently combining all 70 into one humongous pm!

Quick hit the block button now and save yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I dont reply to those i can clearly see havnt taken the time to read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"I dont reply to those i can clearly see havnt taken the time to read my profile

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me too!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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@ Alexdog1234 - individuals do not have to reply at all to any message they receive, it is not bad manners, by not replying they have made it clear you are not their choice, which could be for one on many reasons stated already.

They exercised a choice, just like you choose to when ignoring the sites recommendations not to quote the silly disclaimer about Sidney University.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Oooh don't get me started on university warnings

I just love it when they have one line about themselves but have seven or eight lines of meaningless gibberish warning of the repercussions of copying their non profile

What's that all about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Completly useless and just uses up space on the server!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Yeah rambling on about rubbish does use up server space .............hang on a minute.....

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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It's my life's work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Wow... How bigs the server!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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its a tough crowd as a single bloke I always try to reply to everyone who sends me a message unless they are just rude, or haven't produced an actual sentence. i.e fancy a fuck / nice tits etc etc.

If someone has shown some tact, respect and intelligence they get the same in return.x

But I do despise people who blatantly dont read the profile and they ask questions where the answer is in the profile.

In turn a well written profile makes all the difference too.

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By *rron1981   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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God people dont have to i take it as they dont want to Know it they delete or dont reply ,just get on with it its there choice

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By *rron1981   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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There is a problem people moaning to much on here

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By *sumlovers   profile verified by photo (M)(F  over a year ago

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"There is a problem people moaning to much on here "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Does moaning about moaners make you a moaner

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Highly likely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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depends on the reason n style of moaning I think lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"depends on the reason n style of moaning I think lol "

...I love the fact there is styles of moaning.. Grumpy moaning.. Sarcastic moaning..sexy moaning... Mumbling moaning.. And moany moaning or is that a billy idol lyric

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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A moan by any other name would smell as sour.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"It's called common courtesy the stuff parents should off raised you with "

Really, your parents taught you dogging website etiquette?

Liberals eh?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"It's called common courtesy the stuff parents should off raised you with

Really, your parents taught you dogging website etiquette?

Liberals eh?"

Don't think the same rules apply on dogging, there are no rules. You only have to stand by convention in the real world

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*atpurr By *atpurr   profile verified by photo (F  over a year ago

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Manners and courtesy are important in the real world and here. It's all about give and take. Some just learn to give pleasure as well as take it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Nah, it's not the same on here as in real life, mind you I would always be polite whatever I am doing

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By *lllovedup   profile verified by photo (M)(F  over a year ago

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Just two pennies worth. We are a genuine couple, real people, real meets on our profile and we don't reply 'straight away' to all our mails as we are simply inundated with them every day. Some just get deleted immediately (basically the smooth talking idiots - 'nice tits' 'wanna fuck?' 'I've got a big cock for you' will all go in the deleted bin and not even replied to. We do reply to all genuine posts, but with each of us working and having a family we don't always do it straight away. Yet some people are SO impatient it's unbelievable. Then they send accusing messages. 'you've read my mail and you haven't eben replied, that's just rude' etc etc. When in fact YES we HAVE read it and we were waiting to reply to it properly when we have some time. Which is previously scarce for us anyway. So by doing that you've simply got yourself blocked or lost out on a good meet.

Basically all good things either

Come to an end (as above)

Or

Cum to those who wait....

A and J xx

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By *lllovedup   profile verified by photo (M)(F  over a year ago

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Stupid typo's. We're not illiterate honestly.

'even'

'preciously'

And a missing ) near the beginning

Xx

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By *ardandhornyherts  (M)(F  over a year ago

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For us it mostly comes down tonight they have read the profile or not. Also if the female of our couple is interested in the male/female/couple that message us.

Most of the time they NEVER read the profile. They ask what we are up to that night even though it quite clearly says we don't do meets at the drop of a hat. Or they ask if we want to talk on Skype even though it says we don't do that. Or they give us a one liner, or address just the female etc etc. If they can't be bothered to read the profile then we can't be bothered to talk to them, its pretty simple.

One guy even laughed because he said we have to many rules on our profile. They are there to weed out the chaff. If those rules don't suit you then you aren't what we are looking for.

So do we HAVE to reply? Hell no we don't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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with 95% of messages received there is in the content that just because you are on a sex site then you must be some form of unpaid prostitute.

"what you up to tonight"... "I'm stopping in a hotel" ..."I'm working just round your way"....

Normally if you want that kind of quick and convenient service from a total stranger that you have made no effort whatsoever to even introduce yourself to then normally yo have to pay for it.

Sadly 95% of messages incorporate that content and nothing or very little else.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Hmmm..

It's not a sex site?

Most of the guys on here are married or attached.

They're not on here to find mates, just a fuck.

So blaming or criticising them for trying is a bit over the top.

If you want a meaningful relationship, try a dating site.

This is a fuck site, either doing or watching.

If you don't do that, then say so. If you do do that, but only with 5ft guys with red hair and big dicks, then say so.

Guys: If they say they only want meets with 5ft guys with red hair and big dicks, and you ain't that, leave them alone.

Is that clear?

Too much beating around the bush on this site (which brings us back to sex)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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For what my opinions worth most single guys here have no intention of meeting anybody, theyre quite happy with a dirty chat to wank to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Hmmm..

It's not a sex site?

Most of the guys on here are married or attached.

They're not on here to find mates, just a fuck.

So blaming or criticising them for trying is a bit over the top.

If you want a meaningful relationship, try a dating site.

This is a fuck site, either doing or watching.

)"

All of that does not mean that manners are superfluous.

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By *ardandhornyherts  (M)(F  over a year ago

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"Hmmm..

It's not a sex site?

Most of the guys on here are married or attached.

They're not on here to find mates, just a fuck.

So blaming or criticising them for trying is a bit over the top.

If you want a meaningful relationship, try a dating site.

This is a fuck site, either doing or watching.

If you don't do that, then say so. If you do do that, but only with 5ft guys with red hair and big dicks, then say so.

Guys: If they say they only want meets with 5ft guys with red hair and big dicks, and you ain't that, leave them alone.

Is that clear?

Too much beating around the bush on this site (which brings us back to sex)"

ThatThats always puzzled me. Man comes to a sex site looking for sex and gets moaned at for looking for sex? No logic in it at all.

I agree with you, if you want a relationship try tinder.

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*ickra7851 By *ickra7851   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I have met allloved up and can vouch they are honest and great fun.

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*ickra7851 By *ickra7851   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I also want to say there are some genuine guys like me looking for meets, arranging meets and meeting. But as always its difficult as a single guy with all the competition.

Also there has to be an attraction etc.

Ladies go look at my profile lol.

Mick

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By *razyhorny213   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I always reply when messaged and occasionally when winked. But don't really get that much attention

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*ngelbiTV By *ngelbiTV   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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I got messaged by a guy who asked to meet.

I replied saying I don't meet at weekends and I never got a reply back saying he understood.

I mean...his rude!

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*ngelbiTV By *ngelbiTV   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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"I got messaged by a guy who asked to meet.

I replied saying I don't meet at weekends and I never got a reply back saying he understood.

I mean...his rude!"

HOW rude...even

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