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Couples help me need advice??

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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To all you lovely wonderful sexy couples on here, how did you persuade your other/better half into swinging. I drop slight hints to my wife but never get the courage to say out right , she is the same age as me a red head that is very sexy , and if anyone has ever been with a red head , they have to temper to match their sex drive lmao,,

How did you both get in and which partner asked who

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Everything you've said about redheads is true in my experience....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Yeah she gets so horny and wild , the first time we had sex was like the moment in basic instinct , lol need a couples perspective

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Everything you've said about redheads is true in my experience...."

Like ,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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What a load of bollocks! How can the colour of someones hair determine how they fuck?

I fucked a ginger bird once and it was like fucking a sack of wet shit. A sack of wet shit.

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By *roper46  (M)  over a year ago

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do you not think it actually was a wet sack of shit with a ginger wig on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Hmmm....now you mention it, that would explain a lot of things!

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*andm226 By *andm226  (M)(F  over a year ago

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In our case when we were deciding whether to make the move from long term friends to partners, he told me that he enjoyed this, would like to do more of it and that he found sexually submissive women a turn on. Then it was up to me to decide whether I was interested in this lifestyle.

Dont think he thought it would turn me into an even hornier nympho lol!!!

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*andm226 By *andm226  (M)(F  over a year ago

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In our case when we were deciding whether to make the move from long term friends to partners, he told me that he enjoyed this, would like to do more of it and that he found sexually submissive women a turn on. Then it was up to me to decide whether I was interested in this lifestyle.

Dont think he thought it would turn me into an even hornier nympho lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"In our case when we were deciding whether to make the move from long term friends to partners, he told me that he enjoyed this, would like to do more of it and that he found sexually submissive women a turn on. Then it was up to me to decide whether I was interested in this lifestyle.Dont think he thought it would turn me into an even hornier nympho lol!!!"

wow thanks for your feed back , its nice to here other couples stories and can use there advice in helping the wife into this life, and the need i have , Wife swap on the telly is boring and fake , Wife swap on here is sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"What a load of bollocks! How can the colour of someones hair determine how they fuck?I fucked a ginger bird once and it was like fucking a sack of wet shit. A sack of wet shit."

bet you gets lots of girls them NOT!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"do you not think it actually was a wet sack of shit with a ginger wig on "

well said , any colour race age sex all walks of life get horny some more than others but in my experience with red heads they are filthy

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*NCHANTICA By *NCHANTICA  (F  over a year ago

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"Everything you've said about redheads is true in my experience...."

We do have our moments.

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*NCHANTICA By *NCHANTICA  (F  over a year ago

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"Everything you've said about redheads is true in my experience...."

We do have our moments.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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we met on the site, so was easy lol

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By  *op My Cherry    profile verified by photo premium paying member (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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Have you decided yet which set of people would like to break her into??? As in single guys, single women, couples or what? And don't forget she might 'freeze' at that crucial moment that kinda ruins the mood for everyone. I definately think another couple, a few drinks and some very suggestive talk to start with, remember it might be really weird for her or she might've wanted but didn't know your feelings. You might actually surprise yourselves but be careful, you don't want to screw up what you already have.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"we met on the site, so was easy lol"

Lucky couple

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Everything you've said about redheads is true in my experience....

We do have our moments. "

Fiery

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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"I fucked a ginger bird once and it was like fucking a sack of wet shit. A sack of wet shit."

And you know this how?!

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*NCHANTICA By *NCHANTICA  (F  over a year ago

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"I fucked a ginger bird once and it was like fucking a sack of wet shit. A sack of wet shit.

And you know this how?!"

Obviously he's tried it or maybe it was just a fake redhead......real ones are much better

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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He'd be better off with a bag of liver!

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*NCHANTICA By *NCHANTICA  (F  over a year ago

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"He'd be better off with a bag of liver!"

Looks like you experiment too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"What a load of bollocks! How can the colour of someones hair determine how they fuck?

I fucked a ginger bird once and it was like fucking a sack of wet shit. A sack of wet shit."

Of course it could not possibly be that it was your performance was shit?

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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"Looks like you experiment too "

I couldn't possibly comment.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Jesus H Corbett...where's all this abuse coming from eh? Crikey.

My point is valid...hair colour does not determine how good one fucks. If you think it does, you're a cunt. A CUNT.

Do you really beliveve I'm a shit fuck who litterally shags bags of shit? Deary me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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You brought it up, try a warm orange lots less smelly and no deposits under the foreskin!

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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Can give one the pip.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Fuck a jaffa!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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...You fuck one bag of shit and all of a sudden you get a reputation for it.

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By *he Scarlet Pimpernel  (M)  over a year ago

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" You brought it up, try a warm orange lots less smelly and no deposits under the foreskin!"

Why not also try an apple, a pear, a lemon and carrot (for the adventurous)

That way you can honestly state you have had your 5-a-day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Jesus H Corbett...where's all this abuse coming from eh? Crikey.

My point is valid...hair colour does not determine how good one fucks. If you think it does, you're a cunt. A CUNT.

Do you really beliveve I'm a shit fuck who litterally shags bags of shit? Deary me."

hahahahahaha That's hilarious! You bags of shit shagger! Atleast the poor sheep get a break!

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By *he Scarlet Pimpernel  (M)  over a year ago

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"...You fuck one bag of shit and all of a sudden you get a reputation for it."

As connoisseur, what is best when your 'fucking bags of shit', is fresh shit better, or do you need it to mature?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Jesus H Corbett...where's all this abuse coming from eh? Crikey.

My point is valid...hair colour does not determine how good one fucks. If you think it does, you're a cunt. A CUNT.

Do you really beliveve I'm a shit fuck who litterally shags bags of shit? Deary me.

hahahahahaha That's hilarious! You bags of shit shagger! Atleast the poor sheep get a break! "

That was never proven, i tend to believe his story that he was only keeping them till he had his sack of shit!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Ok ok, it WAS sheep shit. You lot are like the gestapo.

Talk about having your self esteem shattered

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Wouldn't have thought all them little lumpy bits would do much for you texture wise, do you put it through a blender first, and how do you warm it up?

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" Wouldn't have thought all them little lumpy bits would do much for you texture wise, do you put it through a blender first, and how do you warm it up?"

The warming up bit is called foreplay lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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You'd be surprised. The texture adds that little bit of interest, a touch of the unknown. When one lurks around in fields like us Welsh do, you're always likely to happen upon a fresh pat.

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By *irtyAndCh33ky   profile verified by photo (M)(F  over a year ago

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" The warming up bit is called foreplay lol"

oh no someone's off the naughty step! lol

Mrs Dirty

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"You'd be surprised. The texture adds that little bit of interest, a touch of the unknown. When one lurks around in fields like us Welsh do, you're always likely to happen upon a fresh pat."

She is a cheeky cow isn't she? Unusual name in Wales too!

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By *irtyAndCh33ky   profile verified by photo (M)(F  over a year ago

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"You'd be surprised. The texture adds that little bit of interest, a touch of the unknown. When one lurks around in fields like us Welsh do, you're always likely to happen upon a fresh pat."

I'm Welsh and can honestly say i've never lurked about in a field....carparks and woods yes but never a field lol

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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She might not be fresh...but as long as she's not ginger.

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" The warming up bit is called foreplay lol

oh no someone's off the naughty step! lol

Mrs Dirty"

Im avoiding her, i saw her get her knickers in a twist the other day, moody cow!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"She might not be fresh...but as long as she's not ginger."

i know, be like fuckin a sack of shit!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"To all you lovely wonderful sexy couples on here, how did you persuade your other/better half into swinging. I drop slight hints to my wife but never get the courage to say out right , she is the same age as me a red head that is very sexy , and if anyone has ever been with a red head , they have to temper to match their sex drive lmao,,

How did you both get in and which partner asked who "

My (Bee) advice is if you can't be totally honest and tell your partner about what you want and like in and out of the bedroom then give swinging a miss .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"You'd be surprised. The texture adds that little bit of interest, a touch of the unknown. When one lurks around in fields like us Welsh do, you're always likely to happen upon a fresh pat.

I'm Welsh and can honestly say i've never lurked about in a field....carparks and woods yes but never a field lol

Mrs Dirty "

but your classy Welsh, you take your slippers of before you go shopping and everything!

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*ngelbiTV By *ngelbiTV   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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Being honest. That's an interesting concept for guys (who are already on sites like this) to be with their partners (who they would like to be on a site like this with) lol

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"Mrs Dirty but your classy Welsh, you take your slippers of before you go shopping and everything!"

She takes off her slippers and knickers to go shopping lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Mrs Dirty but your classy Welsh, you take your slippers of before you go shopping and everything!

She takes off her slippers and knickers to go shopping lol"

Yes but that's so she has a trail to follow home, not good with directions the Welsh!

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By *irtyAndCh33ky   profile verified by photo (M)(F  over a year ago

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"Mrs Dirty but your classy Welsh, you take your slippers of before you go shopping and everything!

She takes off her slippers and knickers to go shopping lol"

pmsl....you tell me off for wearing knickers!

I was sweet and innocent until I met you

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Mrs Dirty but your classy Welsh, you take your slippers of before you go shopping and everything!

She takes off her slippers and knickers to go shopping lol

pmsl....you tell me off for wearing knickers!

I was sweet and innocent until I met you

Mrs Dirty"

How do you find your way home when its raining?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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From a woman's perspective... I had wanted to try a woman for about 10years but kept it secret from Alan. He had always been vocal about having a 3some with another woman. We have been together 17 years and its only in the last year or so ive really opened up and told him what i really want. Maybe this comes with age and confidence. We spoke and spoke and eventually ended up stumbling across this site in our quest for finding a woman that would like to fulfill our dreams. As yet we have had no meets only a few chats and a bit of flirting. However the more we discuss it the hornier we get and end up having hot fun just by talking bout it. Good luck opening up to your wife hope she reciprocates ur ideas

Emma x

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By *irtyAndCh33ky   profile verified by photo (M)(F  over a year ago

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" How do you find your way home when its raining?"

I've got a twat nav to help me lol

Mrs Dirty

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*ngelbiTV By *ngelbiTV   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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Who says she does? When we had that really wet period before Christmas, I didn't see her for days lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Who says she does? When we had that really wet period before Christmas, I didn't see her for days lol"

always thought it would be easier for them if they produced that silver stuff snails do, just as well they have legs really!

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"I've got a twat nav to help me lol

Mrs Dirty "

I think your twat nav is directing you to other things.

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"I've got a twat nav to help me lol

Mrs Dirty

I think your twat nav is directing you to other things."

we do have all our dogging locations saved on it! lol

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"I've got a twat nav to help me lol

Mrs Dirty

I think your twat nav is directing you to other things.

we do have all our dogging locations saved on it! lol"

wow problem solved, a homing twat! What will they think of next!

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"From a woman's perspective... I had wanted to try a woman for about 10years but kept it secret from Alan. He had always been vocal about having a 3some with another woman. We have been together 17 years and its only in the last year or so ive really opened up and told him what i really want. Maybe this comes with age and confidence. We spoke and spoke and eventually ended up stumbling across this site in our quest for finding a woman that would like to fulfill our dreams. As yet we have had no meets only a few chats and a bit of flirting. However the more we discuss it the hornier we get and end up having hot fun just by talking bout it. Good luck opening up to your wife hope she reciprocates ur ideas

Emma x "

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Thankyou Emma x just the kind of help I needed , there are a lot of fake people on here . I posted for couples help then some single guys jump in one is a "GINGERIST" !

It's always been on my mind finally found a life partner but would like to explore. Been together 5 yrs and 2 of them married, she has such a dirty mind and tried most things together , but would try the waters in asking her to go to a club , and maybe , start by watching others and letting others watch us??

I've always had a massive thirst for sex not just me but , the pleasure I get from satisfying others . Thankyou Emma x

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"I've got a twat nav to help me lol

Mrs Dirty

I think your twat nav is directing you to other things.

we do have all our dogging locations saved on it! lol"

Watch that you never leave in in display , as wouldn't want it stolen lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Also u could drop it like ohh one of the lads was talking bout 3some swinging ect. I recon it would be fun to do ...... What do u think? Then ur getting her oppinion without committing yourself to wrath of woman if it goes tits up haha.

emma

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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for what it is worth I started including it in dirty talk whilst making love (not shagging) just as she was cumming I would put a finger in her mouth and say its a cock suck it you would love another cock wouldn't you? she always came harder lol

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"What a load of bollocks! How can the colour of someones hair determine how they fuck?

I fucked a ginger bird once and it was like fucking a sack of wet shit. A sack of wet shit."

My oh my johnejones, judging by the language and phraseology of your input to this forum, do you not think it might be that this `red head` was responding to the attention, efforts and performance from you, realised she had dropped a b.....k and couldn`t wait to get you off of her??. Seems you have no social grace nor respect for any woman of any hair colour.

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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Either that, or he's got a sense of humour.

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"Either that, or he's got a sense of humour."

Naa dom`t think so, some things no matter how they are actually `meant` are never funny

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By  *Enoch    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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Really?

You believe that?

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"Naa dom`t think so, some things no matter how they are actually `meant` are never funny"

Don't know about that, no matter how he meant it I think I'd laugh at a Welshman fucking a bag of shit.

What sort of bag? Carrier bag, paper bag, or a grow bag? For people with busy lives I guess a colostomy bag would be ideal, ready to go and all that.

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*_ajones By *_ajones  (M)(F  over a year ago

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she probably doesnt like the idea of you/her sleeping with other people cos its not exactly typical of a normal relationship. In her eyes your supposed to love and only want her. Just tell her and see what she says cos if you dont you will find yourself pushing further away from her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Just ask her!

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*ngelbiTV By *ngelbiTV   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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Why drop hints in case they aren't picked up on?

As you say, you don't have the courage to ask her outright.

Personally, get the courage to ask her outright. If she says yes, then well done. If she says no, then that's unlucky but at least you asked her.

Be open and honest with her. If you want her to be a part of this lifestyle then the least you can do is talk to her with respect and let her make an informed decision.

If you can't do that for her, then do you deserve her to be a part of this lifestyle with you?

Simples!

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