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"Thank you Ghetto xx
OK, just to clarify... i think this thread has now ended. there seem to be a couple London socials popping up now, and as we are very inexperienced with this, we shall leave it to the pros.
I was never going to put finance down, or ask for any deposit to book a venue as i the kind of social i had in mind was a good night out drinking, dancing, putting faces to names and whatever happens happens. I am aware there will be other social with other agendas, but i think they are a little bit of a deep end for us lol.
to ease any confusion, our organising will no cease, and let the people who know what they are doing to do what they do best
lesson learned, and we shall do the traveling to other social events. best of luck to you all, and enjoy your evening out when its all finalised.
Mrs and Mr C xxxx"
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO dont give up, just look into the future ( April and May and further on in the year) and go around to pubs etc and ask if they can reserve area for a sat night etc.... then look at the hotels around it and thats it, just have to create a guest list of people willingly want to come (but people say they want to and you just have to keep the numbers around the venue size), thats what i have dne for the Nottingham one i am organising in march, it is easy, i wasnt a pro and still aint but its good to do something haha,
The other london socials popping up seemed to have lacked planning in my eyes, as the south coast one in last june was at a swingers club but was told about months in advance and people had time to sort plans out, just stick at it and if you need help then ask people who have organised it before, me, candy, sammy, 30s, ch33ks and others and they will give you advice, it is not that hard and the past ones have gone really well