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Fakers, liars, timewasters

*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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Think we need a topic to warn others of these sad little fools before they con others. What do you all think?

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*ngelbiTV By *ngelbiTV   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD) 29 weeks ago

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Good luck with that but you can’t name & shame

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*egalbeagle By *egalbeagle   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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"Good luck with that but you can’t name & shame"

Very true. Over time it becomes almost second nature to be able to identify these sorts of people. Profiles that just seem a little too good to be true or couple accounts where the wife has mysteriously disappeared on an aardvark hunting trip for 9 months so it's just the male etc.

It is so very obvious now, I guess we just need to point out safety measures rather than name and shame.

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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How do i get rid of mrs shy for 9 months

There seems to have been a high volume of fake profiles the ones we have seen are usually around 30 and location says uk

Then theres the ones that are promoting people to sgin up to other sites or premium phone numbers being advertised then theres a few couple profiles where the f has left and the m continues to use the couple profile but for some reason doesnt delete the f pics or change to a single male its so much hard work and then the best is the bit when you find out and they vanish o well guess we will keep looking

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*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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Yeah, we are usually very good at weeding out the fake profiles and the obvious ones who just want to have a wank. We got stung yesterday with one though who one the face of things seemed very genuine, even had him call us to verify... But then the demands for "just one more pic" started coming and the messages of I'm on my way I promise. His lies were very convincing, even had us heading out to meet. I suppose we are just fucked off that we fell for all his bullshit as we are usually so good with figuring out who's real.

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*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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At least we had one meet with a real genuine guy, so it wasn't a total bust haha

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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We had the same happen we was going over to halifax it was our first meet on here got read got in the car set off then all of a sudden no messages not phone call nothing we was so pist off a little notice if he couldnt do it we would of been fine with that but a total blank wasnt good at all but we later found another gent and ge was very nice and respectful turned out not to be a bad night

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*egalbeagle By *egalbeagle   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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Yup gotta learn to roll with the um... blows lol

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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Lol

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*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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That's the problem, I want to blow but some cowards are too scared to follow through with their promises hahaha

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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Its got to be bad when we cant even give it away lol

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*egalbeagle By *egalbeagle   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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I'm just at the wrong end of the country these days. Was fun when I was in either the West Midlands or Essex tho, ah those were the days...!

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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Think we are in the wrong part everyone is either way south or way north and alot of weird inbetween lol

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*orkshire rock By *orkshire rock   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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"Its got to be bad when we cant even give it away lol"

You should do 'bogof' offers!

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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You should kiss my arse lol

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*orkshire rock By *orkshire rock   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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"You should kiss my arse lol"

If only,if only.......

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*egalbeagle By *egalbeagle   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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Pretty sure that's Mr shy's butt you're puckering up to there bud.

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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Buy one get one free on tickets to see whos bum hes kissing lmfao

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By *arpaul   premium paying member (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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we arranged meet with guy, on day messaged to say just leaving on way etc,we waited messaged him to see where he was,told us held up in traffic wont be long, we waited did he turn up no,why do guys do this? what do they get out of it?

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*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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He didn't happen to be from Sutton did he?

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*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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Or have No Fuss as part of his name, because that's exactly what we were told the other night by one lol

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By *arpaul   premium paying member (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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no from eastbourne east sussex, yet another one,like the guy who claimed to be 45 more like 70 lol

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*egalbeagle By *egalbeagle   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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Must have wanked himself into oblivion just imagining what it would have been like rather than just getting out there and actually doing it.

I'd happily pop for you if I were closer lol.

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By *arpaul   premium paying member (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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lol, I have to say we have found genuine guys on here,one we have met regular for a couple of years, so not all bad

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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There is genuine people on here its just finding them its like driving through fog on here

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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago

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There are a lot of genuine folk but unless I know them personally I see everybody with suspicion especially the young 19 yr old women....women!! With stupid updates

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By *om bull yorks  (M) 29 weeks ago

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Think this happens to everyone on this site I have driven 40 miles to meet a couple but when I got within 10 miles and pulled over to check messages and texts they had stopped and gone offline, phoned number straight to answer phone left it 30 mins phones again answer phone so headed home. Next day they had left site. :/

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By *om bull yorks  (M) 29 weeks ago

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Got to take rough with smooth alot as much as you try to work out genuine ones via cam, text, phone some will always be timewasters or fakes.

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By *ornynopenminded  (M) 29 weeks ago

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If folk arrange a meet then dont show then its there loss they obviously dont have the balls to meet. What kick they get from letting people down i will never understand seems to happen alot even when having things up for sale happens also

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By *ussy licker1971   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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I'd LV meet you send details to inbix

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By *N couple  (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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This is a great reminder as to why we never waste time arranging meets.

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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We have travelled and been let down but as long as we keep smiling we will keep trying

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*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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So many time wasters. Also got one fool who's only on here for chatting and maybe a flirt... Jesus christ! Use another site if you're not up for meets.

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*egalbeagle By *egalbeagle   profile verified by photo (M) 29 weeks ago

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To be fair, I’m not likely to be meeting anytime soon as I’m not able to drive at the moment so availability and proximity are an issue, yet I’m still here, warbling away...! As long as people contribute something to the community I couldn’t care less if they are up for meets or not. But people pretending to be up for meets just to get their rocks off with online flirting? Sod that, gives everyone a bad opinion and wastes people’s time. Just be honest with why you’re here, that would make life so much easier for all concerned.

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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We use this site to chat and its good fun were not always available to meet if we are we post it otherwise were here to chat to friends and others who have simular interests people just wanting a chat doesnt bother us one bit its the ones who arrange a meet then piss about that get us wound up but we get over it and are still having fun

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*ikeit72 By  *ikeit72    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 29 weeks ago

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"We use this site to chat and its good fun were not always available to meet if we are we post it otherwise were here to chat to friends and others who have simular interests people just wanting a chat doesnt bother us one bit its the ones who arrange a meet then piss about that get us wound up but we get over it and are still having fun "

Ditto here but I would add that I am a man of my word and never have (& never would) let people down or be a "no show" - it seems the height of rudeness to me!

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 29 weeks ago

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If we arrange and they couldnt show for what ever reason as long as the person or persons let us know that would be absolutely fine but being blanked is what makes it worse and its hard because there is so many genuine lovley people on here

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By *ongkongphewy   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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Can I just say that the genuine people on here get no where .... it’s got much worse over the last year or so

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*ole999A By *ole999A   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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Just hate being blocked by women when I point out their "it is really me" photos actually could never be thiers

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*egalbeagle By *egalbeagle   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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Why would you care ? If you know a photo is fake then it's probably a guy anyway.

*shrug*

When I see a photo or profile that I think is fake I just don't interact with that person. Makes for an easier life than starting random internet arguments.

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By *imonwest76  (M) 28 weeks ago

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I’ve met with a few singles and couples in here and there are always fakes

I tried to arrange a gangbang a few years back with a lovely lady and everyone backed out right up to the last minute

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By *imonwest76  (M) 28 weeks ago

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If you were closer I would be up for a meet

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By *N couple  (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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"I’ve met with a few singles and couples in here and there are always fakes

I tried to arrange a gangbang a few years back with a lovely lady and everyone backed out right up to the last minute "

That’s why we just go out n find our fun. The freedom is great, no waiting around for a no show, no issues.

Tried the arranged thing quite early on with zero success

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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Think the bumping into a stranger might be the way to go because looking for them is difficult will just see how it goes

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"I’ve met with a few singles and couples in here and there are always fakes

I tried to arrange a gangbang a few years back with a lovely lady and everyone backed out right up to the last minute

That’s why we just go out n find our fun. The freedom is great, no waiting around for a no show, no issues.

Tried the arranged thing quite early on with zero success "

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By *N couple  (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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"Think the bumping into a stranger might be the way to go because looking for them is difficult will just see how it goes "

You could always try clubs. This time of year the dogging scene is a bit quiet (we still venture out)

There’s hundreds of clubbers in 1 place, mostly looking for fun

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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Were not into the group thing we like a bit of privacy when we are being naughty

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*egalbeagle By *egalbeagle   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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Most of the clubs I've been to had a general bar/chat area plus some areas for exhibitionists and group rooms but also had a few private rooms. Worth taking a look I'd say, this was -years- ago so I may be out of date.

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By *N couple  (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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"Were not into the group thing we like a bit of privacy when we are being naughty "

As above has said, there’s nearly always private lockable rooms for you to enjoy your encounters in private

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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Might have to have a better look into this thanks for the info guys and girls we didnt know about the private room part

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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not ln this site, but on another I got burnt by a supposed couple after paying my part for a hotel room.

Tried making me head over to another place in London saying they booked a new hotel...yeah right hahaha

sadly down a substantial amount, and no meet...and to top it off, I took time off work to meet up.

Once bitten twice shy....

ps how do I know I got burnt...when I loged onto the site to send them a message to find out when they would be arriving at ghe hotel because they said they were running late....they had blocked me.

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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Aww thats really bad

Thats so wrong hope it doesnt happen again

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By *uckylad 69  (M) 28 weeks ago

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hello the problem I have is age at 60 its too old for some, it is there choice pity though there is life in the old dog yet lol have fun and stay safe

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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60 thats not that old hope were still going strong when we get there

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By *orkshr cple  (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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we've only met 3 (or 4) in same number of years due to busy life/work, not always in the mood (I am, it's the missus lol). Having said that we never lead anyone on falsely...

I don't see the point?

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By *nterNameHere   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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Most on here are time waister like folk thinking its facebook to get loads of fake friends or pretending to be a coupe and the mrs will know nothing about it, Cyber keyboard doggers,

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By *N couple  (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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"Most on here are time waister like folk thinking its facebook to get loads of fake friends or pretending to be a coupe and the mrs will know nothing about it, Cyber keyboard doggers,"

Wouldn’t say most but some are.

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By *aulsupforit  (M) 28 weeks ago

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Could you not pm the people that want to know the timewasters

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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The one who pms the list of time wasters would have a good size list and if a few people wanted to know it would be a pain in the bum to keep sending it around plus you would just get a list of people who may not be time wasters just a bunch of people one member may not like so theres no real way to find out untill you know yourself

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"The one who pms the list of time wasters would have a good size list and if a few people wanted to know it would be a pain in the bum to keep sending it around plus you would just get a list of people who may not be time wasters just a bunch of people one member may not like so theres no real way to find out untill you know yourself "

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I couldn't agree more. Most of us can spot the fakes and in most cases if their 'pics' or profile don't give it away then their inane questions definitely will. If you use common sense and use the secondary brain which is not below the waist then you are unlikely to encounter too many problems.

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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If a list was to be made we would rather have a list of the genuine people

Making lists aside you should use your own judgement and you will figure it out fakes and time wasters are mentioned way too much just as the cap said use your brain and enjoy the site and the good people on here

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*lFinito By *lFinito   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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the site itself is time wasting compared to others

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By *N couple  (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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"the site itself is time wasting compared to others"

For some, maybe not all. Would depend on what you use the site for

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*aptain_mithras By *aptain_mithras   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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"the site itself is time wasting compared to others"

I’m on a great many sites .. insatiable lol .. and I’ve been on this one for many years.

I like it and have met some lovely people and chatted to many more.

The forums a bit quiet!

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By *aulsupforit  (M) 28 weeks ago

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I suppose this is true and like you say you can smell them like a rat.

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By *ardnready8   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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there are quite alot of time wasters on here...

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*oventrycity By *oventrycity  (M) 28 weeks ago

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I have been had a couple of times on here , one we chatted for ages he was married, wife didn’t know and he was desperate to meet me so booked a hotel and he didn’t show up and then blocked me , another again chatted for months one day told me to meet him gave me the address and told me he uses the back entrance ( no pun ) and to let myself into the kitchen, I drive walk around the back and reluctantly walk into the kitchen and there was an old couple sat there , they screamed as they thought I was about to rob them , I ran out went home then got a message saying haha got ya ? Then blocked strange people

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By *raynor_2000   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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I've had it 3 times here, couple up for meets in place I park for lunch, there every week, no show each time, first leak need plumber emergency, next two times same but crap, lot on here waste of time, big dissapointment was quite good looking bbw girl who arranged meeting just to flash, no show, quite dissapointing, make the effort to type, make the effort to show !

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By *nterNameHere   profile verified by photo (M) 28 weeks ago

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You can spot the fakers a mile off lmao

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*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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What also gets us are the precious narcissist idiots who constantly wink, message, add and re-add us to their contacts... If we aren't interested then we won't waste our time responding to them but they get so uptight and start sending abusive messages accusing us of being time wasters lol... Grow up.

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By *r and Mrs shy   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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We use the block option for those individuals we dont like to but it saves time and the abuse

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*estSuckingWife By *estSuckingWife   profile verified by photo (M)(F 28 weeks ago

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Oh they are blocked as soon as abuse is recieved. Sad little men who think they are the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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What about verifications like FB?

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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Sorry I meant FS

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By *hevisitor  (M) 27 weeks ago

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"That's the problem, I want to blow but some cowards are too scared to follow through with their promises hahaha "

Sadly I didn't see your meet request (I don't use this site very often) I would have been up on those moors like a shot if I had. Mind you i'm out of your age range so i'm probably not going to get lucky. You are quite simply delicious and it would be a memorable time having my cock in your mouth.

Ken

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*agman By  *agman    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 22 weeks ago

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........not ln this site, but on another I got burnt by a supposed couple after paying my part for a hotel room.

Tried making me head over to another place in London saying they booked a new hotel...yeah right hahaha........."

It does work the other way as well, Chocolate.

We like to make our meets when we're away for the weekend or such like.

A couple of years ago we were in Windsor - and i put a status update saying ...."Come to our hotel - couple wanting to play......."

We got a few responses and narrowed it down to one guy who was out around the outdoor part of the swingers club that is around there....(Forgotten the name of it now, i think it's since closed?)......he was very keen to come - until we then started getting questioning messages........Can you come to me? I'm in my van".......err no! Mrs likes comfort.

"What about us all meeting at the Prem Inn at xxxx and sharing the costs?".........WTF!! We've already paid a fortune for a nice hotel and you're getting it for free.........what on earth!??

Numpties, it's the only thing - it must be!

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