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HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN AND TRAET THEM WITH RESPECT IN CHAT

By *tranja

(M) 14 weeks ago

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Well ive been on here for a few months now and is a regular in the chatroom but noticed that most men cant talk to women properly.

its all about wow ur nice any chance of showing me ur gash!!!!. do you use that line in your everyday life, do u go out and say that to women no i dont expect u do.

all im saying its nice to speak to them get to know them a little make them laugh, have a proper convo which works fo me..

ive noticed that if u respect the women more on here and treat them with courtesy that u have a better time in the chatroom having conversations and having a laff and possibly a better chance of a meet which most men want..

so basically im just given some men in there some tips

that just dont log in chat give it the hey babe your hot any chance of gettin naked line cos that doesnt work lol.

they way i look at it is be yourself treat people the way u want to be treated and the rewards will eventually come

thank u for reading have a good day

ciao _tranja

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By *racy691

(F) 14 weeks ago

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well said just hope that they will take note its the same when they message u

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By *aurenxx

(F) 14 weeks ago

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i agree not only in chat tho,im the messages you send,make them fun you will get more replies x

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By *an_n_dim

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very true m8...but stop working your charm on Dim.... don't want her heavin at your cheesy lines....lol

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By *tranja

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lol as if dim im an angel lol

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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago

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Good points and very well said.

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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago

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i agree so many men give few word chat up lines n thats supposed to get u going...sum nice chat and a bit of respect goes a long way to getting my nickers off...hey but none of us angels....

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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago

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i hate it when guys in the chatroom say things like "mmm nice babe" or "are you goin on cam babe"..."are you gonna show us" it makes me cringe and makes them look so sad and desperate

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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago

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Imagination helps- that, and and thinking before typing. Respect is always a plus point, and so are the little details, such as not typing in retarded text-speak, or putting "lol" after the end of every comment. ( People who use the word "kewl" because they say " it's shorter" really need to take a long hard look at themselves)

However though, this IS a sex-site, and there's never going to be a huge amount of respect with such a high male:female ratio. That said, to quote my local supermarket chain: "every little helps"

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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago

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thats kewl babes lol lol.....ha ha ha ha ha( im in trouble now) xx

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By *olly knickers

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I don't mind being asked if I am going to cam/get naked, as long as when I say no, I get left alone. I really dislike being asked why... No is enough of an answer, I shouldn't have to explain myself as well.

Ideally guys that I talk to in chat will show their mush on cam (not their cock... well not all time time anyway) and be engaging, fun and flirty. And these will be people I add to my contacts and would like to meet eventually. I do like to have my dock filled with man-candy... oo er :)

But _tranja is right, more often than not its very engaging because of many reasons.... chat can be busy and fast, sometimes its hard to know who's talking to you, and lastly because no effort is put in. Txt speech is a personal hate for me too, along with babe or baby (I am neither of those things). Oh and whispers asking me to do stuff... grrr

I feel much better now :)

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By *forfun_uk

(M)(F) 14 weeks ago

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as part of a couple i hate it when men dont even take notice of the fact mr2 gets ignored all the time we are a couple treat us as such im not on of an evening thats mr2 so ask after us both thats my rant over

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By *tranja

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go go bolly go hhheheheh x

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By *hocolateandcream

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well said _tranja i got that all the time ladies and men telling me to take my clothes off lol so we agreed with u say m8 more respect in the chat room

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By *tranja

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good on u cc sometimes its better to use your imagination but most blokes just want too see the flesh

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By *olvoscooby

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You speak far too much sense, are you really a bloke?

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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago

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thats a bit sexist scoobydoo or whatever ur name is ...

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By *heshirecpl

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Is it?........I thought it true :-P

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By *olvoscooby

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Sexist? Is it really?

It was actually a compliment, that women usually come up with constructive well thought out posts whilst it's the men normally that think with their dicks, and think "can I fuck you" is a sure fire way of getting attention.

So well done to him for saying it and the ladies on here for tolerating the crap and trying to help out.

Us men (but not always I admit) should actually take a little bit notice of it and perhaps the world will be a better place.

And my name is Chris :-)

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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago

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sorry that i misunderstood you Chris x

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By *outhport2

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we made the mistake of adding a couple of single guys to our msn because they really where ok on here and we had chatted about other stuff so thought why not, to then only find that every time we logged in so did they and the first post was " do you wanna see my cock " followed quickly by " show me you tits ", of course if its mr s they dont even try to find out just straight in, and if its mrs s does she want that comment at 3 in the afternoon!!

anyway the point is that being nice in here just to get a bit further is also a problem, its so hard to talk to just a genuine guy who is as nice to you after he is accepted by you as he was before, so dont just be nice in here!!

and...... now we dont accept any single guys at all, after being open minded about you we have found that all the things we were told ended up being true so those guys spoilt it!

hope that rant makes sense

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By *all-me-bubbles-darling

(F) 13 weeks ago

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I dont add anyone to MSN until i 'know' and 'trust' them a little and then their remaining there is dependant upon them behaving. Anyone behaving like you have described are quickly blocked and deleted for their trouble.

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By *olly knickers

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I have had that same problem southport, and now we don't add single men to our msn either. Of course there are exceptions, there always will be but anyone who pretends to be nice just to get me on msn and then says 'wanna cam' gets blocked and deleted. I would add though I have had the same requests from couples, so am very wary now.

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By *heshirecpl

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And why we wasted so much time when we first joined this site. There are so many single men ( we don't normally add anyone else) on our MSN that were deleted or blocked for that same reason.

What I can never understand is, why the hell does anyone think that they can get you to change your mind about what you want just because they asked...........most odd.

Mr C says, they are male, they will always try, me... I just think they are wasting my time, so now they don't even make MSN until I decide they are serious in loking for meets and not wanting us for camsex.

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By *ertnglad

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Why is it that single men after reading your profile which catagorically states NO SINGLE MALES do they dive in and leave you a message and yes _outhport2 they don't enquire if its the male or the female thats online at the time and that really Ps me off and the mrs too

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By *tranja

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not all men r like this u know lol

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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago

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I was called something really abusive in chat the other day by a fellow user because I wouldn't turn my cam on. To the best of my knowledge there were at least 2 moderators in the room and nothing was done about it. This can be quite off-putting for us girlies, as it appears that aggressive beahaviour is being condoned.....

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By *moothienw

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i agree chesh - why do the blokes think they might change your mind - my rule generally is that i only cam with carl when we are together - so many times i get asked if i might bend my rules - after a couple or so confirmations of NO - they sometimes say oh ok - if they persist i either block or ignore - then they just go onto the next woman - is a little funny sometimes - NOT!!!

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By *tranja

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awww i always respect u smoothiee zzz

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By *ngeldelight

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really ,your an angel?

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By *ilverhead

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Well said mate

We all know why we are hear but surely we can be civilised about it.

You’re a man after my own hart “lets make love to our woman not lets fuck the ars off it, and to any woman who wants it like that tell us you know were only men

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By *ndyflavoured

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Can appreciate why ladies become so hacked off with guys who are discourteous and even abusive. It's bad manners, doesn't get you what you want, and may even constitute harrassment.

I hope every lady here will give a wide berth to anyone who can't treat them with the respect they deserve.

Andy

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

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I read this thread with interest...all points raised are all very valid.

However as this is a site for doggers etc then us females have to accept that there are guys who can't read (I will meet with over 40's and by over 40 I really do mean over 40! although happy to chat to younger guys but not meet them and not too far away means just that!!) and as they have no etiquette with women they won't get very far!

I also think us women should also think about our behaviour too. I think it is rude not to reply to messages even if its to say thanks but...

Had my say now....

Jan

I like guys that can make me laugh and are respectful but flirty.

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By *royboy44

(M) 10 weeks ago

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when u r talking on site i think it best if u talk as if u r next to the person !! if you were next to the woman u wouldnt be rude to her or say gets ur t*t's out would you?

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By *ucker

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_tranja yu told me to get me tits out !!!lol

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By *issy74

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My general experiences in adult based chatrooms..

“I have an 11” cock" = I don’t have a cam

"Hey, I've missed you baby" = I really need a wank

"Hey, where have you been?" = Its only now that you’re here that i realise you havent been on for a while

“You have the best lips/tits/body/pussy on here” = You're the only woman with a cam on and I want to wank to you ...

"K, I gotta go" = I have just cum on cam and now feel a little self conscious so I’m gonna cum and run

"Can i add you as a friend" = Can i fuck you.

"Hi" = Can i fuck you,

"Do you have msn" = can i watch you while i fuck you

“I love you” - can I fuck you

“I just love your voice/eyes/laugh/legs/tits/hair = can i fuck you

"Does your husband know you chat on here" = Can I fuck you - the deception turns me on

"Can I fuck you" = Id really like to develop a deep and meaningful relationship, but I've never spoken to a real girl before and am unsure how to go about it

"Im new here" = I have been using a different username for a year, but am keen to see if i can catch anyone out talking about me behind my back"

"open tits" = I haven’t yet learnt the English for I love your eyes

"Turn your cam on, your smile always makes me happy" = Your tits give me a hard on and I’m horny right now

"I die for you this day" = I’m a fucking weirdo!

"Guys, please don’t watch my cam" = I’m homophobic yet extremely unsure about my sexuality, and that confuses me

“Dont go ! you got me all horny baby” = Don’t you know it's your responsibility to make sure that every guy who comes in chat cums while watching you play

"Are you not going on cam/mic today" = I just wanna know if its worth my while pretending I like you and being nice to you

“Oh yeah, I got you docked” when said by a woman = Your docked, but on a browser that’s minimised. When said by a man = “I’m about to cum and run”

"Is my cam working?" = will someone, anyone please watch me cum

"Did you like that baby" = I need to know I wasn’t docked on a browser that’s minimised

“you’re funny” = I don’t really fancy you and I don’t want to fuck you

“Have you got any pics or vids?” = I really want a wank, but cant actually be bothered to talk to you right now

"I love it when you tease" - stop being a fucking prick tease, you bitch and open tits!

“You make me so horny” = I was horny and hard as granite when I got here, but hey if it gets you to watch me cum and run I'll try anything

“What kind of man turns you on” = I have no cam, I WILL fit the bill

“You’ve always been my favorite” = None of the girls I usually creep round are in chat at the moment

“My Cam is broken” I lied about my description – A lot

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By *aryy palmer

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oh you cynical person you (but funny)

Anyway, as I was saying, “You’ve always been my favorite” ;-)

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago

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Missy that's brilliant, genuinely had me laughing out loud.

Now i've just got to go to check on my.......... washing (yes that's right washing, and in no way that i've sent cheesy lines like that in messages ;) )

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By *heshirecpl

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Missy has it exactly right !!! :-P

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By *ba

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HAHA thats very good, and extremely accurate.

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By *all-me-bubbles-darling

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Lol @ Missy.... very good and suprisingly accurate

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By *all-me-bubbles-darling

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Lol @ Missy.... very good and suprisingly accurate

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By *all-me-bubbles-darling

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Twice!

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By *ba

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heard u the first time bubbles lol

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By *tranja

(M) 9 weeks ago

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the guys still aint changed gettin bored of the hi ur pretty can i see youu naked line yawns xxx

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By *heshirecpl

(M)(F) 9 weeks ago

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It is because it is a sex site, it is the nature of how things are. All people have to do is say no, and most of the men take that as red.

the "lines" I find are funny, because you can see where it is leading up to, you can almost predict what is going to be the next question .....but........there isn't anything wrong in it, are we not all here for some fun in whatever form? :-)

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By *ewayup

(M) 9 weeks ago

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Ello you look great in your pics in yer lingerie any chance I can see yer arse wiv out them duds on and oh d'ya fancy meetin up for a shag when I have a spare two minutes to kill. Go on Chesh yer knows yer wants to. Oh an I ope ya give good head or y'll get a negative.

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By *heshirecpl

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I give good head yeah, what are duds? and no don't do quickies so bugger off :-P

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By *adger8

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i think he means your knickers chesh.

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By *ewayup

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Now isn't that a nice way to speak to man, Jeez I only asked a question what about a little respect for the males on here too.

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By *heshirecpl

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Thanks tadger :-)

And _ewayup.....:-P

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By *ewayup

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Oh yes use yer tongue darlin, hope you rinsed today!!!

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By *heshirecpl

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You would need a very long todger for my tongue to reach you from here!

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By *adger8

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ok chesh poke your tounge out im only in high wycombe,lol

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By *heshirecpl

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oooooo and you nearly match the todger word too......errr my geography aint that good, but wouldn't I need a lizards tongue to reach you too?

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By *ucker

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omg _tranja yu definatly aint no angel,lets at least try and be honest lol

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By *tranja

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haha wat u mean _ucker xxxxxx

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By *ucker

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would yu like me to explain then

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By *tranja

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hhhmmmz

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By *ucker

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lol didnt think yu would x

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By *ndychloe

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There is nothing better than guys showing you (women) attention but dear god there is nothing worse than some guy being in the chat room harrasing you i.e when me n andy are playing enjoy it and if we want directing we will go to the directing room. I (chloe) enjoy guys watching me and wanting me but to be honest guys when you start sounding desperate and shouting orders it puts me well