By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
+add as contact
Sorry chaps, but just because you are a member on this site doesn't mean we want to pass out the locations we know to be currently active and safe. We have no real idea who you are and put simply we don't want hundreds of single guys turning up to either overcrowd and intimidate us and others or fullbeam/drive around/push/poke/prod their expectant arrogance on us. Obviously as with most the replys will be "I'm not like that" etc but unfortunately there are a large majority that are and thus have spoiled it for the rest. Our personal experiences have led us to the views we have and in a nutshell...single guys aren't on the top of our list of people we like to encounter, and when we do it's not hard to find. The limited amount of active couples is a closer knit community, so a different approach might be useful other than the usual:
Pm me the locations too please.
Where do you guys go.
Would love to watch you two
Etc etc etc
This is all in good good faith, and you've all heard it before countless times no doubt, but at the end of the day, couples are letting singles (of their choosing) into the most intimate part of a relationship, it's not a privilege that, if present the couple are there FOR YOU. put the time in and the rewards will come!!
Dogging has changed due to phones/Internet etc both in good and bad ways. It's not like ordering domino's off the Internet. You can't just see what's about (and where), then nip down and get involved. Most locations are generic in nature;
Quiet dark secluded spots in and around towns/cities, car parks lay-bys etc. Do your homework and then put in the time to check them out daytime/night time. See who's who and follow the etiquette associated. Eventually you'll hopefully become someone who couples/singles etc feel comfortable with and will regularly come back for more.
Openly quoting locations etc (although most already ruined are readily available with a quick google search) will only serve to diminish any trust you had and also ensure that most genuine and regular playmates will give those places a very wide berth.